What do you think about this advice ';marry the one who love you, not the one you love';?

This advice was given to me by a relative of course based on her own experience.What do you think about this advice ';marry the one who love you, not the one you love';?
I found to some extent it's true. I loved this guy who was all about himself and what was best for him %26amp; his family (mom,bros,etc) %26amp;finally,fed up, I left and met a guy who,from the start, wanted the best 4 me and put ME first and fell in love with him inWhat do you think about this advice ';marry the one who love you, not the one you love';?
I think your relative is giving sound advice.


If you marry someone you LOVE they may/may not love you back. When you need them they may or may not be there for you. If your sick they may not care for you but since you love them you would care for them. You would never be satisfied with this relationship-- you would always be chasig them and they would never truly be yours.


If you married someone who loved you, you would always be able to depend on them. And you may begin with a confusing relationship but I think at the end of the day all things said and done-- you would love them back.
Your relative obviously had a bad experience of loving someone who didn't love her back, so she just settled for someone who she didn't love because they loved her. This is stupid advice and you will never be happy, you'll always regret what you've done.


Here's a new saying for you: 'Marry the one who you love and who also loves you back'
I do believe that. when you marry the one that loves you no matter what happens in your relationship he or she will always still be there for you. THe one that you love you can love but when their love is gone theres a broken heart.





YOU LEARN TO LOVE THE ONE THAT LOVES YOU. I am in the relationship. IT IS EASY TO LOVE SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU IT IS HARD TO ASK SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU.





CONFUSING.... but listen to your heart and you will not go wrong.
I've always heard that too. I think it would be hard to be in a marriage day in and day out with someone who has feelings for you but you don't have as strong of a feeling for them. Sounds like you could end up hurting the person eventually. Mutual love is the best policy, I think.
Sorry, but that's some of the worst advice I have ever heard. I agree with the first answer - wait for the one who loves you and who you also love. You have to love EACH OTHER equally. Why be stuck unhappy with someone who loves you, but who you are not happy with?
because yOu're not sure if the one yOu love can love yOu back in return if yOu chOose him..


but if yOu pick the one who loves yOu back,


yOu're sure that this person will not leave yOu because he's inlove with yOu..


hope i helped.. ^.^
I know from being in a relationship that was not true love, just frienship. I would say marry the one you love and adore. So what if someone adores you, it means **** in the end.
um marry for love, that's what it should be.





you love him and he love you





some peoples experience you should take advice from if it doesnt feel right to you
Why not marry the one who loves you who you also love?


Sorry dont agree with their advice.