Wednesday, December 23, 2009

So there's a good chance that my girlfriend's going to be pregnant...what advice do you have for a new father?

This is not official, but we have been 'reckless' several times since she started ovulating....and her period is due next week. I've sort of begun to think of this as a foregone conclusionSo there's a good chance that my girlfriend's going to be pregnant...what advice do you have for a new father?
Firstly if you are having a baby... congratulations!! There isn't really any advice as it depends on many things unique to your relationship!


Be there to support your gf, hold her hair back if she's sick, fetch her breakfast in bed often.


She may become unbearably moody as her hormones spiral, and weepy. Don't lose your temper or walk out in a mood, understand her body is going through enormous changes, and it can be scary.


Discuss ahead of time if you want to be there at the birth, and make sure you know the birthplan inside out, as women are often unable to assert themselves during labour. If she decides to go without pain relief before labour, then changes her mind let her... it is painful!!


Hold her hand during labour if you want, but some women don't like to do this, you won't know which applies till the day.


Make a little diary up, something which documents the whole experience, and keep it up til the child is a couple of years old. Often we forget simple things, but if you have it written down you'll be able to recall it. Memories are priceless!


Just be happy and best of luck xxSo there's a good chance that my girlfriend's going to be pregnant...what advice do you have for a new father?
The big ? is are you ready to be a dad.


if so the best thing for you to do is just to be there for you gf and love her. Don't let yourself stray away from her in any way. When you belly starts to grow you should talk to the baby tell your gf that she is doing a good job and try as hard as you can not to stress her out. She is going to be moody and probably cause arguments sometimes for no reason at all. When this happens you need to just take it and maybe walk away for a lil bit and then tell her you love her. Do as much research as you can on her being pregnant and try as hard as you can to understand what she is going threw. w.e you do dont leave her she is going to need you throughout her pregnancy for the support and love
Do not run out on your child!!!


Always be involved in their life, school, clubs, friends.





Don't the mother in anyway, this will effect the child deeply. Meaning don't cheat, lie, or walk out.





If you dont make it as a couple, be grown ups and split calmly, put the child first, and don't have alot of drama!!!!!!





Nothing worse then a sad child
Make a doctors appointment and get her on vitamins.





Otherwise all you can do is wait until she misses her period.
Always remember, a good father takes good care of the mother. If Mom is unhappy, it's not good for anyone, especially the child.
GET MARRIED!!

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