i'm going through rough times, i've made lots of mistakes %26amp; i'm left with pretty much nothing - what is the most unique and important advice you could give me to keep playing the game with a smile on my face?Best advice you could give a 15 yr old on life?
School is just one tiny section of your life, there is SO much more to live for.
Whether you reach it or not is your choice, strive to be the BEST at EVERYTHING you do, otherwise you'll never get to the golden chapter of life.Best advice you could give a 15 yr old on life?
Always be totally honest with yourself and others then no matter what happens nothing can come back and 'bite you on the bum'. This applies even to things you are embarrassed or ashamed of. If everyone knows the facts then they can't be shocked.
Try to remember that being a young teenager is probably the worst time you will go through because your view of the world is not formed on reality at that age.
Though it sounds pretty boring please listen to adults you trust and respect because even when they are telling you things you dont want to hear they are more or less invariably right. You may still want to do things your way but learn from any failures and expand on all successes.
Start every day with a hug from/to someone who loves and cares about you.
Keep going because things will get better and when you are a few years older you will be a different person to the one you are today.
Good Luck - teenage years can be hell - but everything is ahead of you.
xxx
1)know what you want and where you want to go
2) learn to build confidence and never underestimate yourself but at the same time try to be humble at doing things
3) life throws crap at you. It's your job to find strategies to handle them yourself (this doesn't mean you should deny it altogether)
4) Mistakes are there to be learnt - they help build who you are. Learn from them; not as if you want to make them again
5) Problems are often due to more than one reason and the first reason you get is usually not the underlying one (whether it's about yourself or someone else)
6) The hardest step is usually the first one - get out of the vicious cycle now!
No matter how bad things get or seem to be you will get through it and things will get better if you just hang in there! You are in control of your own destiny, the only thing that can hold you back is fear and lack of confidence. Do not ever think that anyone is better then you or that you are not worthy. Sometimes the people that seem most confident are actually really insecure. Deep down we all have the same insecurities and fears, it is how you get past them that makes the difference. The teen years suck but it is the lessons you learn and the experiences you have in these years that shape who you are and make you stronger!! Good luck!!
Do your best in everything, but if you don't/can't, then just remember that it's not the end of the World. And don't do anything life-changing just because someone else wants you to (e.g. going to University, taking a job you're not sure about, etc), make sure that you think it through carefully and all of that sort of stuff!
And try to keep smiling, but don't worry if you can't, not everyone can be happy all of the time!
you have a very myopic view of the world during your teen years. i went through some really hard times when i was your age too, and now it seems like another lifetime ago (i'm only 32 now!). everything will change once you gain some more life experience. you go through different stages during life, and your teen years are some of the hardest because you have a very egocentric outlook on life. just try to talk to a trusted adult, set some goals for yourself, and know that things will get better. remember, ';this too shall pass..';
Im 15 nealy 16 and ive been through attempted suicide, drugs, alcohol and a made up absuvive boyfriend and annorexia with one friend. Life is hard and there is no getting round it. But if you can come out of it with a smile on your face whether it be fake or not then that is an achievement in itself. Personally, although life is still really hard most of the time i am just counting down the days until i can leave home, and school for university where i will walk away without looking back. That is my goal and i think that it is so much easier to get through if you set yourself some sort of goal. Good luck!
You have the rest of your life ahead of you. leave your silly mistakes behind and you'll be fine.
Be happy and do well in school. respect your parents and always chose your family first in your life.
Don't get into drugs or any of that.
Trust me. You'll regret it like I when I was a silly 15 year old girl.
do what you think is right at the time. if its wrong youll learn from your mistakes.
be nice to people even if they cant be as nice back to you - youll be rewarded eventually.
be yourself.
do what you want to do, make your own decisions - not what you think other people want you to do
It gets better than this - truly, it does. Never take yourself totally seriously, take time to appreciate something different each day, and remember - keep smiling - it makes them all nervous :)
Best of wishes, and my prayers go with you
Hm,
That sounds esactly like me. im 15 too O.o
weird.
But yeah, im gonna keep going until im older
like others have told me.
if my life still sucks then, Then im probably
going to move to a diffrent country, hope for the best.
you shud wait and see how ur life turns out.
Stick in at school, never let others put you down, and no matter what happens always try your best at anything you do - it may not be perfect, but you will know you put your own best effort into it.
Chin up, have hope, don't give up.
Oh and remember that without music, life would be a mistake...
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=6rndltmm3o鈥?/a>
Belive in yourself
And put your whole life into the hands of God and he will answer all your problems or tough decisions you have to make
Regret Nothing
Deny Everything ;)
Hope This Helps Chuck... Keep Smilin x
f*ck everything...All that matters is your family and education...Then later on little pieces in your life will appear.
If life give you mess clean it. You'll never get anywhere if you just point at the mess and say ';See the mess it's awful.';
Trust God 100% in everything.Find Him
Keep going no matter what. Do not ever,ever give up.
there is nobody better than yourself. belive it.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment